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如果我们不以平和的心态看待这一切，我们就会陷入不平衡的心态，发脾气，缩小心胸，缩短视野，造成更多的痛苦。

If we don't look at all this with a peaceful attitude, we will fall into an unbalanced attitude, lose our temper, narrow our mind, shorten our vision and cause more pain.

在我们意识到这一点之前，我们的人生已经走过了一半。在经历了风雨、离别、生死之后，我们渐渐明白：做人，不需要轰轰烈烈；生活，不需要大富大贵；人生，不过是要有滋味。

Before we realize this, our life has gone through half. After experiencing wind and rain, parting and life and death, we gradually understand that being a man does not need to be vigorous; Life does not need great wealth; Life is just a taste.

要与自己和平相处，你必须保持平和的心态，看到自己的长处和短处，接受自己的不完美，允许自己犯错。不要纠缠于人或事，尽可能平静和平和地对待一切。

To live in peace with yourself, you must maintain a peaceful attitude, see your strengths and weaknesses, accept your imperfections and allow yourself to make mistakes. Don't be obsessed with people or things. Treat everything as calmly and peacefully as possible.

大多数高尚的人都很谨慎和冷静，他们清楚地知道自己想要什么，能做什么，应该做什么，他们在满意的时候不夸耀，在失望的时候不气馁。

Most noble people are cautious and calm. They clearly know what they want, what they can do and what they should do. They don't boast when they are satisfied and don't get discouraged when they are disappointed.

事实上，快乐和不快乐的区别在于心态。关键是你如何调节你的心态，调整你的心情和管理你的情绪。如果你能处理好所有这些事情，你就能成为一个真正幸福的人。

In fact, the difference between happiness and unhappiness lies in mentality. The key is how you adjust your state of mind, adjust your mood and manage your emotions. If you can handle all these things, you can become a really happy person.