一、众口难调,不管你怎么做,总有人会有不同的质疑。所以做好自己,开心就好。千万别在最好的年纪里,吃的最胖,用的最差,活得最便宜。走过的路,留下的印记,温酒的杯子,残留余温的外套和离开的你,都依旧令我难忘。
No matter what you do, there will always be people who have different doubts. So be yourself and be happy. Never at the best age, eat the fattest, use the worst and live the cheapest. The way I went, the marks I left, the cups of warm wine, the coats I left behind and the ones I left behind are still unforgettable to me.
二、但我们都要懂得一个道理,那就是,爱你的人不需要你强求,勉强而来的终究不会长久,一个人若是不喜欢你了,那么就放他走,同时你也不要再去纠缠。
But we all need to understand a truth, that is, the person who loves you doesn't need you to force, the person who reluctantly comes will not last long after all. If a person doesn't like you, then let him go, and at the same time you don't want to entangle.
三、我们现在经历的那些,无论好的坏的,全部都是微不足道的小事。度过那些摇摇晃晃的日子,所有艰辛也会内化成为力量,留下闪光又珍贵的回忆和一路上坚韧不拔的勇气。
What we are experiencing now, good or bad, is all trivial. Through those shaky days, all hardships will internalize into strength, leaving flashing and precious memories and persevering courage along the way.
四、你说你喜欢雨,但是你在下雨的时候打伞;你说你喜欢太阳,但是你在阳光明媚的时候躲在阴凉的地方;你说你喜欢风,但是在刮风的时候你却关上窗户。
You say you like rain, but you take umbrellas when it rains; you say you like the sun, but you hide in the shade when it's sunny; you say you like wind, but you close the windows when it's windy.
五、爱一个人真的很简单,但是爱一个不爱自己的人却好难。看不到希望也看不到结果,只能默默的付出。人之所以会放弃,是因为只看见前方的路途遥远,而忘记自己是坚持多久才走到这里。
It's really easy to love someone, but it's hard to love someone who doesn't love themselves. We can't see hope or result, we can only pay in silence. The reason why people give up is that they only see the distance ahead and forget how long they persevered before they came here.
六、在青春的世界里,沙粒要变成珍珠,石头要化作黄金,青春的魅力,应当叫枯枝长出鲜果,沙漠布满森林,这才是青春的美,青春的快乐,青春的本分!青春须早为,岂能长少年!
In the world of youth, sand grains should be turned into pearls, stones into gold, the charm of youth should be called withered branches grow fresh fruits, deserts are full of forests, which is the beauty of youth, the joy of youth, the essence of youth! Youth must be early, how can we grow up?
七、生命太短,没时间留给遗憾。若不是终点,请一直微笑向前。你从一个我最亲密的人变成了我最不愿提起的人。回忆再美,终都是过去;感情再好,终会淡去。
Life is too short to leave time for regret. If it's not the end, please keep smiling. You've become the last person I want to talk about from a person I'm closest to. No matter how beautiful the memories are, they will always be the past; no matter how good the feelings are, they will fade away.
八、不解释的,才叫从容。不执着的,才叫看破。不完美的,才叫人生。用心甘情愿的态度,过随遇而安的生活,你在,世界就在!
He who does not explain is calm. If you are not persistent, you will see through. Life is imperfect. With a willingness to live a life of ease, you are here, and the world is there!
九、别哭泣,别叹息。悲伤唤不回逝去的时光。做一个简单的人,看得清世间繁杂却不在心中留下痕迹,保持平常心,简单,快乐。请别把我当傻瓜,有些事不是我不知道,只是我看在眼里,埋在心里。一个人最好记性不要太好,因为回忆越多,幸福感越少。
Don't cry, don't sigh. Sorrow calls no time back. To be a simple person, you can see the complexity of the world but leave no trace in your heart, keep your mind normal, simple and happy. Please don't treat me as a fool.
Some things are not I don't know, but I see them in my eyes and bury them in my heart. A person's memory is better not too good, because the more memories, the less happiness.
十、生活伤害我们的时候,试着用过去的美好回忆来原谅,不抱怨才能更快乐。人生最大的悲剧,并不是败给了对手,而是败给了自己。我们生活在同一座城市,呼吸着相同的空气,仰望着同一片天空,最重要的是我们的心中只有对方。
When life hurts us, try to forgive with the good memories of the past, and be happier without complaining. The greatest tragedy of life is not to lose to your opponent, but to lose to yourself. We live in the same city, breathe the same air, look up to the same sky, the most important thing is that we only have each other in mind.
十一、人生的境界,说到底还是心灵的境界。如果神乱心迷,去向哪里都捕捉不到生命的本象,领略不到风景的韵致。只有心安神静,才能铸就人生的优雅。后来山盟海誓再也感动不了我,你不认真我便不当真。错的人就是错的人,从来不会因为你能忍,或者能熬多点时间,就变成对的人。
The realm of life, in the final analysis, is the realm of the soul. If you are distracted, you can't capture the essence of life and appreciate the charm of the scenery wherever you go. Only peace of mind can make life graceful.
Afterwards, Shanmeng vowed never to touch me again. If you don't take me seriously, I won't take it seriously. The wrong person is the wrong person. You never become the right person because you can bear it or because you can stay longer.
十二、善良的人往往容易相信别人的善良,并因此低估了恶人存在并且作恶的可能性。在这个世界上,没有一个人能陪你感同身受。你万箭穿心,你痛不欲生,也仅仅是自己的事。
Good people tend to believe in the goodness of others, and thus underestimate the possibility of the existence of evil people and doing evil. In this world, no one can accompany you to feel empathy. You have a thousand arrows piercing your heart. You are in great pain. It's just your own business.
十三、人生如茶,有起伏才有淡定,有苦痛才有馨香。得意之时,要学着把自己看得低一些;失意之时,要学会忍受寂寞,努力沉淀自己。始终浮在生活的表面,体会不到人生的幸福;永远躲在人生的谷底,沐浴不到明媚的阳光。得意之时要淡定,失意之时要坚定。
Life is like tea, there are ups and downs to calm, there is pain to fragrance. When you are proud, you should learn to look down on yourself; when you are frustrated, you should learn to endure loneliness and try to precipitate yourself.
Always floating on the surface of life, can not experience the happiness of life; always hiding in the bottom of life, can not bathe in the bright sunshine. Be calm when you are proud and firm when you are disappointed.
十四、最痛苦的,莫过于是徘徊在放与不放之间的那一段,真正下决心放弃了,反而,会有一种释然的感觉,从此,痛和爱都有深深埋进心里。爱,是无止境的幸福,也可能是无边界的苦痛,愿幸福拥抱全世界的爱,愿你我能够一起走过人生的风风雨雨。
The most painful thing is the period between putting and not letting go. If you really decide to give up, you will feel relieved. From then on, both pain and love are deeply embedded in your heart. Love is endless happiness, may also be boundless pain. May happiness embrace the love of the whole world, wish you and I can go through the storms of life together.
十五、总会有些日子里,风有点大,雨有点急,天有点黑,人有点累,而脚下的砂石有点多。或许不知道怎么让自己安然走过这一段路,但我想,只要还想走下去,经历的一切,最终都只不过过眼云烟。
There will always be days when the wind is a little strong, the rain is a little urgent, the sky is a little dark, people are a little tired, and there are a little more sand and gravel under their feet. Maybe I don't know how to let myself go through this road safely, but I think, as long as I want to go on, everything I have experienced is only a passing cloud in the end.
十六、 心累的时候,换个角度看世界;压抑的时侯,换个环境深呼吸;困惑的时候,换个角度去思考;犹豫的时候,换个思路去选择;郁闷的时候,换个环境找快乐,烦恼的时候,换个思维去排解,抱怨的时候,换个方法看问题;自卑的时候,换个想法去对待。换个角度,世界就是另外的样子。
When you are tired, look at the world from another angle; when you are depressed, breathe deeply in another environment; when you are confused, think from another angle; when you are hesitant, choose from another way of thinking
when you are depressed, find happiness in another environment; when you are troubled, change your thinking to solve problems; when you are inferior, treat problems in another way. In another way, the world is different.
十七、真诚,是一个人的本性;善良,是一个人的天性。不管遇见任何人,真诚才能走进心里;无论碰到任何事,善良永远不过期。美丽的外表也许会打动别人,但真诚的内心更能感动别人;强势的语气也许会让人口服,但善良的行动更会让人心服。
Sincerity is one's nature; kindness is one's nature. No matter who you meet, sincerity can enter your heart; no matter what you meet, kindness will never expire. Beautiful appearance may move others, but sincere heart can move others more; strong tone may make people oral, but kind action will make people more convinced.
十八、 花时间去讨厌自己讨厌的人,你就少了时间去爱自己喜欢的人。花时间去计较让你不爽的事情,你就少了时间去体验让你爽的事情。恨,烦,焦虑,难过都是别人带来的,可时间是你的。所以节约自己的时间比一切都重要。
Take the time to hate the person you hate, and you have less time to love the person you like. Take the time to think about the things that make you uncomfortable, and you have less time to experience the things that make you uncomfortable. Hate, annoyance, anxiety and sadness are all brought by others, but time is yours. So saving your time is more important than anything else.
十九、现在生活中,颜值不知不觉已经成为衡量人的重要部分,有时候会听到很多一见钟情的爱情故事,可是只听到了故事的开头,却不知道最终的结局。
Nowadays, face value has become an important part of measuring people unconsciously. Sometimes I hear many love stories at first sight, but I only hear the beginning of the story, but I don't know the final outcome.
二十、人生就像夏天的天气,瞬息万变。当你痛苦的时候,不必灰心丧气,因为它迟早会雨过天晴;当你快乐的时候,也不必得意忘形,因为它随时可能乌云密布。所以,不管碰到什么境遇,都应淡然处之,没必要大悲大喜。
Life is like the weather in summer, changing rapidly. When you are in pain, don't lose heart, because sooner or later it will rain and clear up; when you are happy, don't be complacent, because it may be cloudy at any time. Therefore, no matter what situation you encounter, you should take it lightly. There is no need to be happy and sad.
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