一、每个人心里都有几个狠角色,那是不敢轻易触怒的人。没谁能做到让所有人都爱你,但必须做到让人适当的怕你,欺软怕硬的人因此才不敢乱来。没在维护自己尊严时吼过一嗓子,谁又会真正重视你昔日的温柔相待?当日后笑谈起曾经,从未彪悍过的人生,解释起来都费劲!Everyone has several ruthless roles in his heart. They are people who dare not easily get angry. No one can make everyone love you, but we must make people fear you appropriately, so that the people who are bullying and afraid of hard do not dare to mess up.
Who would really value your past gentleness without shouting at your dignity? When we laugh about the life we have never had before, it takes a lot of effort to interpret it in the future!
二、如果这辈子你没得罪过人,那只能说明这辈子你也没干成过什么事。念旧的人总是容易受伤,喜欢拿余生等一句别来无恙。 世上所有的惊喜和好运,等于你的人品乘以你的努力。If you haven't offended anyone in your life, it only means that you haven't done anything in your life. People who are nostalgic are always vulnerable to injury. They like to wait for the rest of their lives. All the surprises and good luck in the world are equal to multiplying your character by your efforts.
三、经过一些事,才能看清一些人;看清一些人,才能读懂一些情。天会下雨人会变,世事难判断;人字好写心难懂,人心不简单。Only by doing something can we see some people clearly, and only by seeing some people can we understand some feelings. When it rains, people will change and things will be difficult to judge; when people are good at writing, they are difficult to understand, and their hearts are not simple.
四、曹操再奸都有知心友,刘备再好都有死对头。不要太在乎别人对你的评价,做好自己个人,干好自己的事,走好自己的路。活在别人眼里,是世上最可悲的一件事。Cao Cao has intimate friends and Liu Bei has enemies. Don't care too much about what other people think of you. Do your own thing, do your own thing, and go your own way. Living in the eyes of others is the most tragic thing in the world.
五、拥有需要一个前提,那就是舍弃。舍弃了一部分,才有可能拥有另一部分。生活并非只需要一部分,而是需要各个部分互相平衡,就要有所取舍。有舍有得,方可平衡。Ownership requires a prerequisite, that is, abandonment. If one part is abandoned, it is possible to have another part. Life does not need only a part, but a balance of parts and choices. Balance can only be achieved if you have something to give or give.
六、世间最美好的东西,莫过于有几个头脑和心地都很正直的朋友。人不就是这样吗,安慰别人的时候头头是道,自己遇上点过不去的坎立马无法自拔。The best thing in the world is to have a few friends who are honest in mind and heart. That's not the way people are. When they comfort others, they are always in the right way. They can't extricate themselves when they encounter a cannon that they can't pass.
七、他说不让你受一点委屈,果然没有食言,他让你受了很多委屈。选择幸福并不可耻,可是只图自己幸福却是可耻。He said that he would not let you suffer a little grievance, as a matter of fact, he did not break his promise, he let you suffer a lot of grievances. It's not shameful to choose happiness, but it's shameful to just try to be happy.
八、不喜欢一个人总是能找到很多理由,比如个子不够高,长得不好看,性格不合适,但如果你问我喜欢一个人的理由,我也许绞尽脑汁都想不出个所以然来。There are always many reasons why I don't like a person, such as not tall enough, not good-looking, not suitable personality, but if you ask me the reason why I like a person, I may rack my brains to come up with a reason.
九、想读一本书,却总是放不下眼前的手机;想开始一段旅程,却迟迟没有收拾行囊出发。很多时候,我们欠缺的不是想法,而是做出决断的勇气。Want to read a book, but always can not put the cell phone in front of; Want to start a journey, but did not pack their bags to start. Many times, what we lack is not the idea, but the courage to make a decision.
十、你不懂得拒绝,你总害怕自己言行会惹别人不高兴,你总尽力达成别人的每一个要求,可是没人感激你,因为在别人眼里你做的都是理所应当的,他们变本加厉,你不明所以,其实你太痛苦都是因为你自己,谁让你太在意别人却忽略了自己。You don't know how to refuse, you are always afraid that your words and deeds will make others unhappy, you always try to achieve everyone else's requirements, but nobody appreciates you, because in the eyes of others, you do what you deserve, they become worse, you do not know why, in fact, you are too painful because of yourself, who let you care too much about others but ignore yourself.
十一、 小的时候,我们都长身体去了,所以很天真、很快乐。等长大,不长身体,就都长心眼去了,就活得很累了。很多时候都是自己挖了个坑,然后义无反顾的跳进去。坑是自己挖的,跳也是自己跳的,最后爬不出来的也是自己。When we were young, we all grew up, so we were naive and happy. When they grow up and don't grow up, they all grow up and live very tired. Most of the time, they dig a hole and jump in without hesitation. The pit was dug by oneself, jumped by oneself, and finally failed to climb out by oneself.
十二、只要心情是晴朗的,人生就没有雨天。给自己一个微笑,无论你过去做了什么,将来即将做什么,生活中依旧有许多值得感恩的,给自己一个微笑,是对自己的一个肯定,也是对未来的一份期许。As long as the mood is clear, there will be no rainy day in life. Give yourself a smile, no matter what you have done in the past, what you will do in the future, there are still many things to be grateful for in life. To give yourself a smile is a affirmation of yourself, but also a hope for the future.
十三、我的心不是二十四小时营业的餐厅,没有随时的欢迎光临。好多话忍着憋着,后来就懒得说了,好多事失望多了,后来就不在意了,就是一次次失望以后,突然就想通了。时间会帮你攒够失望,并告诉你不用谢。My heart is not a 24-hour restaurant. You are not always welcome. A lot of words held back, and later I was too lazy to say, many things were disappointed, and then I didn't care, just after one disappointment, I suddenly thought about it. Time will save you enough disappointment and tell you not to be thankful.
十四、 人生在世,注定要受许多委屈。一个人越是成功,他所遭受的委屈也越多。要使自己的生命获得极值和炫彩,就不能太在乎委屈。你要学会一笑置之,超然待之。智者懂得隐忍,原谅周围的那些人,让我们在宽容中壮大。Life is doomed to suffer many grievances. The more successful a man is, the more grievances he suffers. If you want your life to be extreme and glorious, you can't care too much about grievance. You have to learn to laugh and be detached. The wise know how to tolerate, forgive those around us, let us grow in tolerance.
十五、谁不曾感觉过失望,谁不曾辜负过自己的青春, 我们总是在昨天狠狠绝望过一回,然后突然醒悟般地走向未来的生活。此时春早,情感仍不了。邂逅某年花正好,多次相逢街角。Who has never felt disappointed, who has never lived up to their youth, & amp; nbsp; we always had a hard despair yesterday, and then suddenly awakened to the future life. At this time of spring, emotions still can not be. Encounter the flowers of a certain year, meet the street corner many times.
十六、永远不要放弃,坚持走下去,肯定会有意想不到的风景。也许不在你本来想走的路上,也不是你本来想登临的山顶,可另一条路也有另一条路的风景,不同的山顶也一样会有美丽的日出,走上一条新路。Never give up, keep going, there will be unexpected scenery. Maybe not on the way you wanted to go, or on the top of the mountain you wanted to climb, but there is another way of landscape, different peaks will also have beautiful sunrise, take a new road.
十七、有些人你遇到了也就只不过擦肩而过,后会无期,那些人只不过是生命中的过客,但有时却变成了记忆里的常客。可能第一眼看见就深深地烙印于心,但也于事无补,最终也注定说上一句再见,甚至彼此沉默,不如不见。Some people you meet are just passing by, and will be endless. Those people are just passers-by in life, but sometimes they become frequent visitors in memory. Perhaps at the first sight it is deeply impressed in the heart, but it is not helpful, and ultimately destined to say goodbye, or even silence with each other, as good as not to see.
十八、一个隆冬的夜晚,张爱玲终于等来了机会,在佣人何干的帮助下,她巧妙地趁两个巡警换班的时间,就那样遛了出去。当真立在人行道上,街上寂寂的冷,路灯下只看见一片寒灰。One winter night, Eileen Chang finally got the chance. With the help of her servant He Gan, she skillfully took advantage of the time when the two patrolmen changed shifts and walked out like that. When standing on the sidewalk, the street was silent and cold, and there was only a piece of ashes under the street lamp.