一、记住一个道理:只要自己变优秀了,其他的事情才会跟着好起来。思念一个人的滋味,就象是喝了一杯冰冷的水,然后一滴一滴凝成热泪。
Remember a truth: as long as you become excellent, other things will follow. The feeling of missing someone is like drinking a glass of cold water, and then one drop by one condenses into tears.
二、感情不是一味地付出就会有结果,而是要懂得彼此珍惜,互相尊重。而那些不在乎你喜怒哀乐的人,不要留恋,更无需挽回。她说她没醉却一直摇摇晃晃掉眼泪。 你说你爱她却从没想过给她一个家。
Emotion is not about giving blindly, but about cherishing and respecting each other. And those who don't care about your joys and sorrows, don't nostalgia, let alone retrieve.
She said she wasn't drunk but kept shaking her tears. You said you loved her but never thought about giving her a home.
三、在我偶然得到这个符咒的时候,我很想知道这个因果。刚开始,以为实现我所被挫折的梦想是果;后来,以为与你相见延续前缘有可能就是那个果;再后来,以为在另一个世界开始新的人生是那个果。
When I accidentally got this spell, I wanted to know the cause and effect. At first, I thought it was the result to realize my frustrated dream; later, I thought it might be the result to meet you and continue the front; then, I thought it was the result to start a new life in another world.
四、生命只有一次,我们要以正确的方式,和正确的人一起度过。 用心对待我们身边的每一个人:不管我们曾经遇见还是错过,总有些人和事让我们难以忘却。
There is only one life. We should spend it with the right people in the right way. Be attentive to everyone around us: Whether we have met or missed, there are always some people and things that we can never forget.
五、我们唯有学会了孤独,我们才能真正拥有独立生活的能力,才能保持灵魂的独立,才能学会控制自己的欲望。因为这些能力都发生在独处时的思考与自我对话中。只有具有这项能力的人,才能拥有让自己幸福的能力。
Only when we learn to be lonely can we truly have the ability to live independently, maintain the independence of the soul, and learn to control our desires. Because these abilities occur in thinking and self-talk when you are alone. Only those who have this ability can have the ability to make themselves happy.
六、对爱你的女人,你可以让她哭,让她受委屈,但不要让她沉默,因为无言是一种最深的伤痛,是一个女人最悲的哭声。排队其实就是人生,在我们的面前有很多未可知的因素。你站队的时候,不可能知道前面的人存钱、取钱需要多长时间。就如我们的人生长度取决于许多因素,自己并不能左右。
For a woman who loves you, you can make her cry and suffer her wrongs, but don't let her be silent, because silence is the deepest pain and the saddest cry of a woman. Queuing is actually life. There are many unknown factors in front of us.
When you stand in line, it's impossible to know how long it takes for the people in front to save and withdraw money. Just as the length of our lives depends on many factors, we can't control ourselves.
七、感情经不起敷衍,不要漠视那颗爱你的心,更不要等到只剩沉默才追悔莫及!人生最了不起的四种心境:痛而不言、笑而不语、迷而不失、惊而不乱。
Feelings can't stand perfunctory. Don't ignore the heart that loves you, let alone wait for silence to regret! The four most remarkable moods in life are pain without speaking, laughter without speaking, lost without losing, and shock without confusion.
八、我们可以骗得了所有人,却始终骗不了自己的心。乖一点,放不下的时候,想想别人是怎么放下你的。我们的缘分就是那么奇妙,时间定格在那一点上,你就这样走进了我的生命。
We can deceive everyone, but we can never deceive ourselves. Be good. When you can't put it down, think about how others put it down. Our fate is so wonderful, time fixed at that point, you entered my life in this way.
九、 我们总是喜欢拿“顺其自然”来敷衍人生道路上的荆棘坎坷,却很少承认,真正的顺其自然,其实是竭尽所能之后的不强求,而非两手一摊的不作为。用你的微笑去改变世界,而不是让这个世界改变了你的笑容。
We always like to take "let it be" to perfunctory life on the road of frustration, but seldom admit that the real let it be, in fact, after doing our best not to demand, rather than a two-handed inaction. Use your smile to change the world, not the world to change your smile.
十、人生短短几十年,不要给自己留下了什么遗憾,想笑就笑,想哭就哭,该爱的时候就去爱,无谓压抑自己。
Life is only a few decades. Don't leave any regrets for yourself. Laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry. It's meaningless to suppress yourself when you love.
十一、每一个普通的改变,都将改变普通,因为从决心变得更好的那一刻开始,我们就已经与一个全新的自己不期而遇。加油吧,只要你肯用心,生活无论何时都不会负你。
Every ordinary change will change the ordinary, because from the moment we make up our minds to become better, we have met with a brand new self. Come on, as long as you are willing to work hard, life will not fail you at any time.
十二、越长大越不敢依赖别人,怕人心会变,怕承诺不兑现,以至于只相信这世上只有自己才能给足自己安全感。笑容里不再有忧伤,时光已把所有的悲欢沉淀!
The older you grow up, the more you dare not depend on others, for fear that people's hearts will change, for fear that promises will not be fulfilled, so that you can only believe that only you can give yourself a sense of security in the world. There is no more sadness in the smile, time has precipitated all the sadness and joy!
十三、 秒针的步伐再快,也逃不出表盘的运转;时针的野心再大,也逃不出齿轮的控制;我的花样再多,也逃不出你炙热的手掌。凡遇好事的时光甭张狂,张狂过了头后边就有祸事;凡遇到祸事的时光也甭乱套,忍着守着,哪怕咬着牙也得忍着守着。
No matter how fast the second hand moves, it can't escape the operation of the dial; no matter how ambitious the hour hand is, it can't escape the control of the gear; no matter how many patterns I have, it can't escape your hot palm.
When good things happen, don't be arrogant; when bad things happen, there will be bad things; when bad things happen, don't mess up and keep it, even if you bite your teeth.
十四、想给你最好的自己 但你却在她的身边 享受着她给你的温暖。努力不一定有回报,但至少可以将你和同样努力、想变得更好的人联结在一起,你就会遇到更好的人。没有后台,没有背景,没有关系。那就去比未来,去拼前景,去靠志气!老天从不会亏待任何一个努力生活的人。
Want to give you the best of yourself, but you are enjoying the warmth she gives you around her. Efforts don't necessarily pay off, but at least they can connect you with people who work as hard and want to be better, and you will meet better people.
No background, no background, no matter. Then to compare the future, to fight for the future, to rely on ambition! God will never be unkind to anyone who works hard to live.
十五、想念一个人的时候,只想看上一眼,感觉很暖。牵挂一个人的时候,只想问候一声,感觉心里踏实。一个人孤单的时候,只想找个对的人聊上一会,非常眷恋。世界上最贵的不是金钱,而是时间;最美的不是风景,而是感情。最难的不是相守,而是彼此的相知。
When I miss someone, I just want to take a look and feel warm. When you are concerned about someone, you just want to say hello and feel at ease. When a person is lonely, he just wants to find the right person to chat for a while, and he is very attached to it.
The most expensive thing in the world is not money, but time; the most beautiful thing is not scenery, but emotion. The most difficult thing is not to be together, but to know each other.