关于婚姻的人生哲理，句句在理，值得收藏！
魅力文字系2020-12-23 20:52
一，婚姻，过的不是心情，而是心态
Marriage is not a mood, but a state of mind
二，不信任你的人，再多的解释都是多余
People who don't trust you, no amount of explanation is redundant
三，工作和家人没有谁清谁重，互相需要协调体谅
No one is clear about work and family, and they need to coordinate and understand each other
四，双方要有互相贡献给这个家庭，如果但是一个人，另一个人白吃白喝，这段婚姻就不要继续了
Both sides should contribute to this family. If one person and the other eat and drink for nothing, this marriage should not continue
五，虽然现在允许离婚，但不要把婚姻当成儿戏
Although divorce is now allowed, don't treat marriage as a trifle
六，在长辈面前不要卿卿我我，给他和父母一些空间
Don't make love in front of your elders, give him and his parents some space
七，在长辈面前，互相给些面子，有些事，关起门来自己解决就好了
In front of the elders, give each other some face, and some things should be solved by themselves behind closed doors
八，跟对方父母不和时想想，是谁生的，多去体谅
When you are at odds with each other's parents, think about who was born and be considerate
九，在长辈面前，互相给些面子，有些事，关起门来自己解决就好了
In front of the elders, give each other some face, and some things should be solved by themselves behind closed doors
十，能在一起，就好好珍惜，毕竟，来之不易，别人可能一辈子都没有这个结果
If you can be together, cherish it. After all, it is hard to come by, and others may not have this result for a lifetime
十一，婚姻一开始就不是完美的，是互相进步才慢慢变成完美的
Marriage is not perfect at the beginning, it is mutual progress that slowly becomes perfect
十二，我们是人，与同类待久了就会挑别人的问题，当你看对方不顺眼了就想想对方
的好处吧We are human beings. If we stay with the same kind for a long time, we will pick other people's problems. When you don't like each other, think about each other's benefits
十三，当你发现对方问题时，要指出来，帮助对方改正，才会更好
When you find the other party's problems, it is better to point them out and help the other party correct them
十四，一段感情，就像手捧沙一样，太松了，会漏，太紧了，也会漏。刚刚就好了，不送不紧
A relationship, just like holding sand in hand, is too loose, it will leak, too tight, it will leak. It's just fine. It doesn't matter if you don't send it
十五，关系就像关节一样，关节需要空间才灵活，关系需要空间才和谐
Relationships are like joints, joints need space to be flexible, and relationships need space to be harmonious
十六，想要别人爱你，就请先爱别人
If you want others to love you, please love others first.
十七，如果你都不会去爱自己，那你怎么会去爱别人呢？
If you can't love yourself, how can you love others?
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